Good in bed ;)

My friend telephoned today stressing.  She has a new partner and has planned to sleep with him tonight for the first time.  She's no virgin but is worried that she won't be as 'good' as his ex and will be a huge let down for him.

'Good in bed' - God how life changes - or how the words 'good' and 'bed' used in a sentence changes.  My Mom always said, 'Be a good girl and get to bed.' - Now it's, 'Be a good girl and get to bed - ALONE KAREN!'

I guess my friends worry is common for most girls.  I asked my ex about this when I was with him and he said that guys worry too.  I am the worlds worst worrier as most of you know and worry about worrying, and do worry about being inadequate in every way shape and form to his ex, so I can totally empathise with my friends stress but like I said to her, 'his ex is his ex for a reason!'

My friend asked me if I thought 'I was good in bed'.  What kind of bloody question is that.  If I say, 'yes' then that's bigging me up, if I say, 'no' then that doesn't sound good either.  Maybe I live in a different world to her but I don't bloody have a scoring system by my bed for guys to mark.  I did think I owed her an answer though so thought about it.

I decided that - I AM GOOD IN BED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

or I can at the moment - recent insomnia seems to have passed.  She wasn't impressed with my answer but it's the kind of answer my Mom would like (as bed is just for SLEEPING in !!!!!!!!!!! - well it is in her head what she expects of her daughter (unless I am married!) lol ). 

I guess in reality whilst in bed - no guy has ever said to me, 'good girl - well done' - but then I am glad!  I aint a child - but if no guy has ever said 'good girl' after doing it, does that mean I am not good in bed? 

Isn't life complicated - or is it just me that decides to take a simple question, rip it apart and analyse it to death until I make myself sick with stress - lol (sounds like me).

I guess we are all good at something in bed - maybe you are good at snoring - but hey it's something you're good at.  Therefore be proud to be 'good in bed' - afterall like my friend, your friends probably won't define what they mean by 'are you good in bed' ;) lol